Your Efforts & Your Time Matter
Do you want to feel you are being heard? Do you want people to care about what is happening in your life and how you feel about certain things? The reason behind this is that all feelings are valid, but it’s how we respond to those feelings that get people’s attention.
If we can show how we feel in a positive way toward the people in our lives, then there is a greater chance we will build a more sustainable bond and level of trust with them. It’s difficult for people to believe that we care about them when we don’t show up for them in their times of need or even in times of celebration. It reflects poorly on us and weakens the relationship. However, if we volunteer our time to help others, take ourselves and our personal agendas out of the equation and focus on other people and their needs, then we show the other person has just as much value as we have AND we are creating a stronger foundation and more reliable representation in the relationship…